Remembering as an Act of Imagination A D’var Torah for Parashat Shelah By Rabbi Dr. Rachel Posner This week I met with my psychotherapy client, Melanie (not her real name), who is preparing to give birth for the first time. At her recent baby shower, friends and relatives could not resist sharing their own birth stories. Each woman hoped to help prepare Melanie for what lay ahead. Instead, their stories multiplied her anxiety. "I'm scared," she told me, "because I'm not really in control. I don't know what will happen, or what it will really feel like." This is, of course, a completely natural response to a completely natural situation. Women give birth every day - but for Melanie, it is not every day. It Read More >