Parashat Vayishlah
The courage to say “I’m sorry.”
By Irwin Huberman
There are two short phrases which are among the most powerful in our tradition.
They are “I’m sorry,” and “I forgive you,” and they both come into play in this week’s parashah, Vayishlah, as our forefather Jacob comes to grips with two enemies who have haunted him since his departure from Isaac and Rebecca’s household.
They are Esau, and himself.
The story of how Jacob tricked Isaac into receiving the family birthright is one of the most famous in our tradition. In the weekly Torah portion that we read two weeks ago, Jacob disguises himself as his gruff brother Esau, and accepts the “blessing of the firstborn” from his confused father. Aside from some token signs of remorse, Jacob, prompted by his mother, coolly executes the plan of deceit.
To this point, Jacob is less than what we could consider a model forefather. In some Read More >